Reader situation
You want to attend a workshop, talk, or meetup, but friends are busy. Walking in alone feels daunting.
Central idea
Choosing events based on interests gives you something to talk about. Arriving early, introducing yourself, and asking simple questions help start conversations. Many people at events are also alone.
Practical steps
- Choose an interest-based event. Pick something you care about.
- Arrive early. Arriving early makes it easier to meet people.
- Introduce yourself. Say hello and share why you came.
- Ask questions. Ask others what brought them there.
- Reflect. Note what went well.
Worked example
Fictional example
Leo attended a photography meetup alone. He arrived early and introduced himself to the organizer, who introduced him to others. He asked people about their favorite photo spots. By the end, he had exchanged contacts with two people and planned to attend the next meetup.
Boundaries
- Stay safe and trust your instincts.
- Respect others’ boundaries.
- Be kind to yourself.
One thing to try this week
Look up an event you could attend alone this week.
Discussion prompt
What made it easier to walk into an event alone and start a conversation? Share it on Collasia.
